My take on reality shows

       See reality shows are very entertaining and that's mainly what it is for right? I started watching this show love and hop just about 2 years ago and now I have something to say. First I want to know why come all the women on this show always have to have their breasts out? I mean shoot I cant even concentrate or take them serious when they be discussing an issue because their breast are just sitting there. I mean we obviously know that majority of the women on these reality shows have work done and they can do whatever the hell they want. I think I might get some work done. But these days  kids watch these shows,....(which mines wouldn't be allowed to) and they think that their bodies are just naturally like that and want to be them. Reality shows portray a fake image, magazines, music videos and everything. It's called reality but at times are far from that. Not only kids,...adults look up to things like this too. I am sorry to say that but there are some out there that do.
       These shows these days are teaching our kids and people the wrong things and people out there are trying to live a fantasy life that they see on tv. Everybody's life is different. Everybody struggle. They hardly show that. They show women in make-up all the time like they don't have bad days so every one is living upon those expectations. It is more to life than just make-up and fashion because that love and hip hop show is like a fashion show....dealing with talent less people.. making a fool out of themselves. I mean there may just be a couple of talented people on there but how many people have made it big? Not many. Just tell me how everybody want to go from stripping to making trashy music?

Mothers being too young or the ones that just dont know any better

I am seeing a lot of things going on in this world. Especially with young mothers...mainly young black mothers and fathers but that's another story. I seen a picture of this little girl that didn't look no more than 6 years old with a tight stretch like jumpsuit on with some kind of high bun in her head with weave. She just looked too grown. And why?.. It's like the mother is dressing the child like she dress...which is probably the case. Look, let kids be kids. Dress kids like they are kids. Instead of focusing on clothes we need to be focused on putting these children in books. We are teaching kids the wrong thing and wonder why things happen to them or they end up being disrescpectful because we are trying to be our kids best friend! No. A child do not need their moms to be their best friend...they need a mother. Lets stop the nonsense.

Then god made woman

Find your inner wonder woman!

  So your man keep hurting you and it keep happening over and over. He say he will change and he apologizes but that isn't special on a count of he say that everytime and turn around and do the same thing. He keep hurting you because there isn't any consequences to his actions. He know exactly what he can say or do and everything will be alright until he mess over you again.
     See we got to stop letting people step all over us and stop being "okay" with stuff. Just being okay and comfortable will get us nowhere but stuck in a hole that we can't dig our self out of until we become stronger. Until we say enough is enough. Life is too short to put up with nonsense. Get strong and stay strong!
                                 Xoxo

Slut where?

You know every now and then someone might say something about how a woman dress and just because they show a "little" skin they a slut or hoe. First of all, aint nothing wrong with showing a little skin....when it's appropriate. And second of all as long as we don't show too much, right? We just need to be classy when we dress ourselves. Dress like a grown woman. Not ratchett! Or clatchett! But as I say if you got it flaunt it because we won't be young forever. And people just need to mind their business anyways. Dress how you want to dress.....as long as it's not much!
                                    Xoxo

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SAFE sex = GREAT sex

When he says,.."Baby,I don't have anything, I'm clean." Right before y'all start having sex. You were hesitant at first but you just got caught up in the moment again. But the only thing you are nervous about is getting pregnant but pregnancy isn't what we all need to be worried about,...it's the sexual transmitted diseases that people don't really take serious. You can't tell by how a person looks that they got something.        And let's be real, do you actually think that dude go get tested yearly?...Do you go get checked yearly? And a lot of people be blinded by love and just think because I sleep with this one person I'm okay,..some people are sneaky and you don't know what they was doing before you meet them or when they not around you. And pay close attention if he is so quick to go in you unprotected,.. Image how many other people he did that too.
     Women,.. I just ask that we protect our body more don't let anyone or any type of feelings control our body. Our body is sacred. Ain't nothing wrong with having condoms on you either! That dosent make you a hoe! It makes you cautious! That is why the best sex is always being SAFE. Hell, aint nothing wrong with taking your partner with you so you both can get checked at same time..